Define Friend.....

What exactly is a friend?  Is it someone who only comes around when you have a "crisis"?  Is it someone who you talk to every day, but dosn't have your best interest at heart?  Is it someone who will tell you that you're a wonderful, perfect person and can do no wrong?  What does it take to be a good "friend"?  Am I a good friend if I dump out any medications that might cause you to relaps?  Am I a good friend if I dump out all of your alcohol?  As your friend, I have a responsibility to God to make sure you stay on the straight and narrow.  I wouldn't want you as a friend if you helped me destroy myself, or told me I was perfect.  Tell me straight up.  Give me the truth.  I can handle it.  I'm a big girl!  Keep me in line.  Those friends are the ones who last.  So don't come in and enable my sin.  I can do that just fine by myself.  Do what you know how to do to keep me on Gods' path.  I'll love you more for it in the long run.